Over the years, I’ve had countless people ask me:
“Andy, I’ve tried everything—visualizing, affirmations, scripting—but love just isn’t showing up. What am I doing wrong?”
The truth? Most manifesting advice skips a crucial step.
A lot of people rely on The Secret, but I’ve seen firsthand that blind positivity isn’t enough.
Without clearing subconscious blocks and limiting beliefs, you’ll keep attracting the same disappointments.
That’s why I recommend these seven books on manifesting love—they don’t just teach positive thinking, they actually shift your energy.
And one of them? It helped a client break a lifelong pattern of heartbreak—but more on that soon.
1. Calling in “The One”: 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life – Katherine Woodward Thomas
Most love manifesting books focus on external techniques—visualizing, affirmations, scripting.
This one? It flips the script completely.
What makes it different?
Katherine Woodward Thomas doesn’t just teach you how to attract love—she helps you clear the inner barriers blocking it from showing up.
Instead of saying “think positive and love will come”, she walks you through a 7-week process designed to help you shift your subconscious beliefs, emotional wounds, and outdated relationship patterns.
One of my coaching clients, Emma, was stuck in a cycle of short-lived romantic relationships.
She was doing all the right things—affirmations, vision boards, even writing in her daily journal—but deep down, she believed she wasn’t truly worthy of a foundational relationship.
We worked through one of Thomas’ key exercises—the Relationship Inventory, which helps you uncover hidden fears from past relationships.
Emma realized she had a fear of emotional vulnerability—a belief that made her unconsciously push people away.
She used one of Thomas’ mini-meditation exercises to shift her mindset and embody the energy of possibility.
Within weeks of doing this deep work, she met someone who truly matched her frequency—and this time, the relationship felt completely different.
Expert Nugget
Thomas writes, “Manifesting love isn’t just about calling in ‘the one’—it’s about becoming ‘the one’ who is ready for love.”
Tip
If you keep attracting the wrong relationships, this book will help you break old patterns, shift your mindset, and finally manifest a foundational relationship built to last.
2. The Power of Your Subconscious Mind – Joseph Murphy
This is the first love manifesting book I recommend when someone tells me, “I keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners.”
What makes it different?
Most love advice books focus on external strategies—Murphy dives straight into the root cause of why your romantic relationships keep repeating the same patterns.
His core idea? Your subconscious beliefs shape your reality more than any vision board ever will.
One of my Sons of Universe readers, Jake, was in his early 40s and frustrated that every relationship he got into ended the same way—distance, withdrawal, and eventually, a breakup.
I asked him to examine his emotional energy around love—the silent, unread book of beliefs running in the background.
After reading Murphy’s acclaimed book, he realized something huge:
He had been raised with the belief that “love always fades” and that “relationships never last.”
His current reality kept reflecting that expectation.
Murphy’s step-by-step reprogramming method helped him shift that mindset, and within months, he attracted a foundational relationship—one built to last.
Expert Nugget
Murphy says, “Your subconscious mind is a garden. Whatever seeds you plant—positive or negative—will grow into reality.”
Tip
If you keep attracting the wrong relationships, this book will show you how to reprogram your mindsets through manifestation principles for lasting love.
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3. Super Attractor – Gabrielle Bernstein
Most people trying to manifest love are making one critical mistake: they’re trying too hard.
What makes it different?
Bernstein explains that manifesting isn’t about chasing—it’s about becoming a magnet for what you want.
And the best way to do that? Let go of resistance and align with joy.
A Sons of Universe reader, Lena, came to me exhausted.
She had spent years scripting, visualizing, and “acting as if” she was in a relationship.
But nothing was working.
When she read Super Attractor, she had a huge realization: she wasn’t actually happy now—she was waiting for a relationship to make her happy.
She started following Bernstein’s powerful techniques—focusing on joy, passion, and fun without obsessing over love.
And within weeks? She met someone effortlessly—without trying to “manifest” anything.
Expert Nugget
Bernstein writes, “Your vibe attracts your tribe. If you want love, stop chasing it and start embodying the energy of love.”
Tip
If you feel like you’re forcing love manifesting, this book will show you how to let go and attract a partner naturally.
4. Ask and It Is Given – Esther & Jerry Hicks
This book is not for everyone—but the people who get it, swear by it.
I’ve had dozens of Sons of Universe readers message me saying this book completely transformed how they attract love.
Others dismissed it as a “non-traditional relationship advice” book, struggling to get past the idea of channeled teachings from “Abraham.”
But here’s the thing—when people actually apply these principles, their love lives shift.
What makes it different?
Most bestselling love manifestation books focus on wishful thinking.
Hicks explains why your dreams into reality process sometimes stalls—and how to align with love instead of chasing it.
One of my clients, Sarah, had been stuck in a cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable men.
She was doing all the right things—scripting, creative visualization, affirmations—but deep down, she didn’t believe she was worthy of love.
We worked through Hicks’ emotional energy scale, helping her shift from fear to joy.
Within weeks, Sarah told me:
“For the first time, I stopped feeling desperate for love. And guess what? That’s when the right person finally showed up.”
Expert Nugget
Hicks teaches, “You don’t attract what you want—you attract what you ARE.”
Tip
If you’ve tried every powerful technique and still feel blocked, this book will help you unlock true magnetic attraction and manifest love like you always wanted.
5. The Magic of Manifesting Love – Ryuu Shinohara
Ever heard of quantum entanglement in relationships?
Most bestselling books on manifestation won’t touch this concept—but this one does.
What makes it different?
Shinohara doesn’t just talk about magnetic attraction—he dives into the science behind why some people effortlessly attract love while others struggle.
His approach blends mind power techniques with energy of abundance, shifting manifestation from something mystical to something measurable.
One of my Sons of Universe readers, Jake, reached out after reading this book.
He was sick of over-reliant partners, tired of dating apps, and frustrated that love never seemed to “stick.”
That’s when he had a realization:
He was trying too hard to manifest love instead of actually embodying it.
After practicing Shinohara’s mini-meditation exercises, Jake started aligning with the feeling of already having love.
Within two months, he met someone who matched his energy—without forcing anything.
Expert Nugget
Shinohara writes, “Love is not outside of you—it’s a frequency you align with.”
Tip
If you feel like love is always just out of reach, this book to manifest love will show you how to create the ideal relationship step by shifting your energy of possibility.
6. Manifest: 7 Steps to Living Your Best Life – Roxie Nafousi
This book isn’t just about manifesting love—it’s about manifesting everything.
And for a lot of my clients, that’s exactly why it works.
What makes it different?
Most love manifestation books focus only on relationships, but Nafousi argues that your love life is just a reflection of your overall energy.
If your self-worth is shaky in one area—money, career, friendships—it’s going to show up in your romantic relationships, too.
I recommended this book to Lena, a woman in her late 30s who came to me feeling like she was “too old” to manifest her dream relationship.
She had done every single technique out there, but deep down, she didn’t actually believe love was possible for her anymore.
This book changed everything for her because step one isn’t about attracting love—it’s about building self-belief.
Lena told me:
“I stopped seeing love as something I needed to chase. I started believing I was already worthy of it. And once I truly felt that, things shifted fast.”
Three months later, she met her now-fiancé.
Expert Nugget
Nafousi says, “Self-doubt is the biggest block to manifestation. The universe won’t give you what you don’t believe you can have.”
Tip
If your self-worth struggles have been holding you back in love, this book will help you rewire your belief system first.
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7. It Begins With You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life – Jillian Turecki
This is the most brutally honest book on love manifestation I’ve ever read.
And that’s why I recommend it to almost every client.
What makes it different?
Turecki doesn’t just talk about how to attract love—she talks about how to keep it.
She focuses on self-responsibility, emotional maturity, and healing past wounds so that you don’t just manifest a relationship… you actually make it last.
A Sons of Universe reader, Daniel, reached out after a painful breakup.
He told me he had done every manifestation trick in the book, yet his relationships always ended the same way—fizzling out or falling apart.
I had him read It Begins With You, and within weeks, he had a realization that hit hard:
He wasn’t manifesting love—he was manifesting his unhealed wounds over and over.
This book helped him break the cycle by teaching him to stop waiting for the “perfect person” and start becoming someone ready for real love.
Expert Nugget
Turecki writes, “Love isn’t something you find. It’s something you create, moment by moment.”
Tip
If you’ve been stuck in repeating patterns in love, this manifesting book will help you fix what’s happening beneath the surface.
My Personal Take
I’ve spent years researching and coaching people on manifestation—and here’s what I’ve learned:
Most people don’t struggle to manifest love because they’re doing the techniques wrong… they struggle because they don’t believe they’re worthy of it.
I remember one conversation with a client, Maya, that stuck with me.
She had read every law of attraction book on love, visualized daily, and did all the right things.
But love wasn’t showing up.
I asked her:
“What would change if you already knew, without a doubt, that love was coming?”
She broke down in tears.
“I’d stop feeling so desperate for it.”
That’s when she got it.
Manifestation isn’t just about the external—it’s about your internal state.
Love doesn’t respond to neediness or impatience—it responds to certainty and trust.
That’s why I always recommend Joseph Murphy’s The Power of Your Subconscious Mind first.
If you don’t believe deep down that love is possible for you, no amount of manifestation techniques will work.
This book will help you fix that at the root.
Conclusion
If you’ve been struggling to manifest love, the truth is this:
You don’t need another generic love manifesting book—you need the right one for where you’re at.
- If you need to heal past wounds and remove emotional blocks to love, start with Calling in “The One” by Katherine Woodward Thomas.
- If you need to rewire deep-seated beliefs, start with The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy.
- If you’re doing everything right but nothing’s working, Ask and It Is Given will help you shift your energy.
- If you want to manifest love without chasing it, The Magic of Manifesting Love is for you.
- If self-doubt is blocking you, Manifest: 7 Steps to Living Your Best Life will fix that.
- If you keep attracting the wrong partners, It Begins With You will break the cycle.
The biggest lesson?
Manifesting love isn’t just about attracting it—it’s about being ready for it.
So now the real question is:
Which book do you need first?
