When it comes to using the Law of Attraction, the first rule is simple: you have to believe. And not just in a vague, “wouldn’t-it-be-nice” kind of way—you have to truly feel it.
Whether you’re dreaming of a soulmate, a dream job, or finally building that financial cushion, belief is the spark that sets everything in motion.
But let’s be real: it’s not always easy. Doubts creep in, and before you know it, you’re stuck in a loop of “what-ifs” and “not-meant-to-bes.” I’ve been there, and it’s frustrating, right? That’s why I’m breaking down five practical steps to help you ditch the negativity and cultivate a mindset that aligns with what you really want.
Because, honestly, why not go for the life you’ve been imagining? Let’s start small but dream big—and I’ll show you how to ask, believe, and receive like a pro.
And if you’re curious about taking manifesting even further, explore how to truly design the life you’ve always wanted here.
Key Nuggets
- Doubt blocks abundance; replace negative thoughts with intentional positive ones to shift your energy instantly.
- Act like success is already yours to amplify belief and attract aligned opportunities faster.
- Affirmations work best when spoken with emotion and displayed where you’ll see them daily.
- Manifestation is like tuning a radio—your mindset sets the frequency for your dreams to appear.
Ask, Believe, Receive! How To Receive The Life You Want In 5 Steps
1. Get Rid Of Negative Thoughts
When you feel down or worry that you’ll never achieve your goals, reject that thought and replace it with an analogous positive thought.
Each time you notice that you are feeling down or worried that you won’t achieve your goals, reject that thought and replace it with a more positive one.
You can tell yourself, for example, that you are well on your way to finding the love of your life, that you are confident of your ability to achieve your career goals, or that you will be happy again after your divorce. Whether you believe these thoughts or not isn’t important right now, as long as you are saying or thinking them clearly.
You will gradually become accustomed to replacing negative thoughts with positive ones, and you may begin to believe these new thoughts.
(These 7 tips will help you keep a positive attitude no matter what!)
2. Act Like You Have What You Want
When you live as if you already have that ideal partner, dream job, or overflowing bank account, you will be more likely to manifest your dreams.
Although you might feel a little awkward or self-conscious at first, this exercise will start to feel powerful if you do things like browse online for things you’ll be able to afford when you’re more prosperous, or buy a card for your future spouse.
There is a concept sometimes known as “living in the knowingness” that can help to make you a more dynamic, magnetic person as it is infused with positive thinking.
3. Look at Success Stories
The Law of Attraction has been used by thousands of people all over the world to transform their lives.
Reading these stories will make you realize that learning the Law of Attraction really can make a huge difference to your happiness and fulfillment, helping you to get rid of any doubts you might have about it.
You can start by listening to my success story here. Learn how I discovered the most powerful form of manifesting energy ever created!
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4. Speak and Write Affirmations
You might already know that affirmations are a key part of using the Law of Attraction, however, you may not have realized that they can be used to strengthen your belief in what you want to manifest.
While you look in the mirror, you might say “I know my soul mate is out there looking for me,” or “Everything I did today is leading me to a better life.” before you go to sleep.
Writing affirmations again and again can make them even more effective, as can placing them on large pieces of paper that can be seen in the morning as you get ready.
Messages that connect you to the truth of your future happiness can be a powerful way of increasing Law of Attraction’s pull.
5. Pump Up Your Confidence
Lack of self-esteem is often at the root of difficulties believing in what you want to attract. It can be difficult to feel good about yourself when you have endured life challenges and painful memories from your early years. However, a positive perspective on your own worth is necessary to benefit from the Law of Attraction.
The first step in overcoming confidence issues is to identify the underlying assumptions.
If, for example, you were bullied in high school for your looks, you can counteract this by focusing on the many occasions when you have been complimented or asked on dates as an adult.
Second step, nurture the aspects of yourself that you are most proud of.
Whatever your strengths are, hone them and make them an integral part of your daily life.
As your confidence grows in response to consistently positive results, it will be easier for you to believe that you really deserve the things you’re attempting to obtain with the Law of Attraction.
My personal take?
Manifesting isn’t just about visualizing a fancy car or piles of cash—it’s about rewiring how you feel about what you want. I’ve been there: caught between wanting a dream life and doubting it’s even possible. Here’s the twist—manifestation isn’t magic; it’s mindset work.
I remember once staring at an empty journal, trying to write my goals. The blank page felt like a mirror reflecting all my doubts. Then it hit me—if I didn’t believe I was capable, how could the universe believe it for me?
So, I started small: imagining the feeling of achieving tiny wins, like crushing a tough workout or nailing a project.
Think of it like tuning a radio to the right frequency. You can’t hear your favorite song if you’re stuck on static. Trust me—when you shift your frequency, opportunities find you.
Ok but.. where do I start from?
There’s a wonderful video tutorial I always recommend to watch. There is no need to buy the course presented at the end (even though it is considered to be one of the most solid systems available). All I want to provide you with here is a clear picture of how the Law of Attraction really works, beyond what most gurus omit to explain. Click below to watch the video:
