Is he cheating on me? 27 subtle signs your husband (or boyfriend) is cheating

Signs of a cheating man
Signs of a cheating man
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Cheating is a frightening term in relationships. It’s a dreadful reality that we’ve all experienced. It could have happened with our parents, friends, or in a previous relationship.

Falling in love is a lovely experience, but it is also dangerous.

When we engage into a relationship, we run the risk of being injured. It takes time for a person to trust, only to be betrayed by the one person they never thought could betray them.

Is my husband or boyfriend cheating?

We don’t want to ask ourselves that question. But what if we’re already cheating subtle symptoms of deception? What are our options?

Let’s get started because we have a lot to cover.

1) He appears to be distracted.

Your once attentive boyfriend no longer looks you in the eyes. You find yourself repeating yourself to him because he isn’t paying attention.

He struggles to stay engaged in the conversation and is always peeking over your shoulder. If he’s cheating on you, you’ll notice that he’s become estranged from your relationship in a variety of ways.

“If your partner’s actions start altering, it could be an indication of adultery,” says relationship specialist Robert Weiss Ph.D.

To a decent extent, love should always be unconditional, which means we instantly want to offer our partner the attention they need to keep them happy.

Paying attention to and “being in the moment” with your partner should not feel like a conscious effort; it should flow effortlessly because you enjoy spending time with them.

And, while your boyfriend or husband may have demonstrated this type of conduct in the past, he does not do so as frequently these days.

You don’t recall when it happened, but he stopped being all there for you all the time.

There’s always something distracting him, a reason for him to be on his phone, cut dates short, or leave your house earlier than expected.

He may attribute it to living an active and full life, but you know that there have been no significant changes in his interests or occupations to account for this dramatic shift in behavior.

So, what exactly is he distracted by, and why is it more important than you?

2) He constantly appears to be incredibly busy.

Nobody knows your partner better than you. You’re aware of everything he’s got going on in his life, from his huge aspirations to his day-to-day duties.

If he is still in school, you are familiar with his studies; if he is working, you are familiar with his typical employment.

But everything appears to be on overload these days.

There’s always a catastrophe at work that he and he alone must manage, or he has new classes with slave-driving teachers.

At least, that’s what he claims.

With all of this added activity, his (already restricted) time for you becomes even more constrained.

It also means that he disappears for lengthy periods of time, making it impossible to contact him through any channel, and he always has the easy excuse of “drowning” in work or studies.

When you approach him for more information, he’ll either come up with something overly complicated and comprehensive, or he’ll get embarrassed and pretend he’s too stressed to talk about it.

But your gut instinct tells you that he’s out with another lady, and he’s using the excuse of a busy life to justify the extra time you don’t see him around.

3) He accuses YOU of cheating.

If you notice your man reversing the allegations, he could be cheating on you. Is he constantly skeptical or insecure about what you’re doing, even if you haven’t modified your conduct or told him what he should expect from you? Because he is projecting onto you, this could be a symptom of cheating.

4) He clashes with you over little matters.

Nobody’s relationship is perfect, and anyone who claims to never argue or dispute with their significant other is lying.

Little squabbles (and even some major ones) are all part of the relationship experience, but at the end of the day, there should always be some progress or growth in both individuals as you both attempt to better understand one other.

But your boyfriend (or husband) now seems to fight you more than he used to, and the arguments he chooses seem to be over the smallest and most insignificant issues.

Maybe you and he recently argued about which Netflix movie to watch, or maybe he began a quarrel with you about you putting away his items.

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There could be a million small ways he’s suddenly picking arguments with you that he wouldn’t have bothered with in the past.

It’s likely that since he’s cheating on you, he’s either attempting to break up with you on purpose by being a poor boyfriend, or he’s weary of you and it’s reflected in how much you now bother him.

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The indicators listed above and below can help you determine whether your boyfriend or husband is cheating.

Even so, speaking with a gifted person and seeking direction from them can be quite beneficial. They can answer all of your relationship queries and alleviate your concerns.

For example, is my partner truly unfaithful? What is the future of my relationship like?

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6) You’re constantly dealing with his mood swings.

We already discussed how your boyfriend or husband developed the habit of picking conflicts with you over trivial matters.

But his mood isn’t always one of rage and irritation; sometimes he’s back to his old, loving self, and other times he’s even more loving than he’s ever been.

So, what exactly is going on? Does he despise you or adore you?

The answer is simple: he has no idea.

He probably did love you for a long time, but now that he’s playing around with another female, all his emotions are out of whack.

Sometimes he’s up, sometimes he’s down, and he’s never really solid about how he feels about you.

Sometimes he thinks he wants to move on and has nothing more to do with you, so he tries everything he can to undermine the connection.

At times, he believes he is making a mistake and attempts to compensate for his betrayal by being extra nice and affectionate.

7) His habits have shifted without reason.

It’s impossible not to be familiar with your one and only boyfriend’s routines and habits, so when they abruptly alter, there’s obviously cause for concern.

Humans are creatures of habit, and whether we like it or not, we all have a set of routines that we follow throughout the day or week.

So, is your boyfriend (or husband) trying anything new or different?

Consider what his routines used to be and what they are now.

Instead of leaving for work at 7 a.m. and returning home at 6 p.m., he now leaves at 5 a.m. and returns home at 8 p.m.

Or perhaps, instead of going to a neighboring gym to work out, he now goes to a gym on the opposite side of town because “it has better equipment.”

His time no longer seems to make as much sense to you as it once did. When you question him about it, he becomes flustered and upset, appearing as if everything is fine and you’re just being paranoid.

8) He no longer invites you to dinner with his friends or colleagues.

A boyfriend (or husband) who adores you is always eager to brag about you.

Whether it’s to his old college pals or his coworkers, he wants everyone to know he’s got a fantastic partner — even if it’s simply to rub it in their faces.

However, if he is dating someone else, he will be less likely to want to spend his “spare” time with you. This is due to numerous factors:

  • He is ashamed of his cheating, and the less time he spends with you, the less time he has to confront that shame.
  • He is aware that the relationship is nearing the end and wishes for his acquaintances or coworkers to avoid associating you with him.
  • Perhaps his acquaintances or coworkers are aware that anything is wrong, and he doesn’t want to risk them informing you.

His justification? “It’s just a boys’ night out,” if it’s with pals, or “the company won’t let us bring partners due to budget cuts,” if it’s with colleagues.

While they may be true in some cases, they are not always true.

His pals may be uncomfortable with you since they know what’s going on, according to the psychological resource GoodTherapy:

“The cheater’s friends frequently know about the infidelity from the beginning, and your own friends are likely to discover it much before you do.” This information usually makes these people feel uneasy around you.”

He’s not telling you anything about the get-together, either: he’s not sure who will be there, when he’ll be home, or what the plan is.

These are all indications that he is attempting to appear innocent and conceal his affair.

He’ll get angry if you insist on going. It’s easier for him to block you from discovering the truth.

9) He has begun to talk about the future in a new way.

It’s not ideal if he used to talk about the future and use the word “we,” but now talks about things he wants to do alone.

Even if he claims that he did not want to be selfish in his plans, be careful that he may be hiding his tracks.

In the end, he may be a selfish partner who is solely concerned with his own future.

I discussed before how the assistance of a smart counselor might expose the reality about what your relationship’s future holds.

You could examine the signs until you reach the desired conclusion, but seeking advice from someone with extra insight will provide you with true clarity on the subject.

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10) He just doesn’t appear emotionally linked to you.

Don’t get me wrong here:

No relationship will ever be as intense as it was in the beginning. That’s the passionate phase we’ve all undoubtedly gone through.

However, as time passes, we tend to bind and securely attach, resulting in more trust with one another.

Emotional intimacy is what sustains this dependable link.

You reach a point when you feel safe disclosing everything to your partner.

However, if your boyfriend or husband appears more withdrawn and less attached to you, this could be a dangerous indicator.

It’s possible that their concentration has changed to the person with whom they’re cheating, or that they feel bad and are retreating.

11) You realize he has a new email or phone number.

Couples’ privacy is really crucial. After all, you have your own lives, social circles, and activities going on.

It doesn’t always indicate they’re cheating if you don’t have access to their phones or social media accounts. In reality, good boundaries are what distinguishes healthy partnerships from dysfunctional ones.

However, there is such a thing as too much privacy.

It’s natural to want to keep your social media presence private, but it’s not usual to discover duplicate profiles of him, possibly under a different name.

It’s acceptable that they don’t have access to their email address, but it’s a red signal if his credit statements are sent to a different email address entirely.

Consider whether your husband or boyfriend goes out of his way to keep information secret and apart from you.

There is a fine line between privacy and concealment.

12) Your pals are also feeling it.

We don’t usually notice relationship troubles since we are too close to them.

Your husband or boyfriend may be pulling the wool over your eyes, but you won’t know until your friends see for themselves.

Sometimes an outsider’s perspective is required to truly perceive your challenge with new eyes.

When you see someone wearing rose-colored glasses, the red flags appear to be regular flags.

Your buddies may have already picked up on some negative aspects of him that you were blind to because you were so in love with him.

If they’re still having trouble trusting him after all this time, consider the possibility that your buddies are on to something:
After all, he’s not very deserving of your trust.

Do your pals frequently alert you that something is “off”?

Do they suggest you to look a little deeper because they, too, have a bad feeling?

Consider your friends’ counsel if they insist on you keeping a closer eye on your partner.

After all, these “warnings” may be more than just that, but they are an indirect way of notifying you that something is absolutely not right.

13) He has started purchasing “guilt gifts.”

Nothing says “I love you” more than unexpected gifts.

There hasn’t been a big event in a while, and your anniversary is still a few months away, but you’re still getting wonderful gifts from your boyfriend (or husband).

You’re not getting ordinary gifts; you’re getting exceptional, pricey items that you’d only expect to receive on appropriate relationship milestones.

This would normally be reason for celebrating. Your boyfriend is lavishing you with affection, demonstrating how much he adores you.

But something isn’t quite right here. You have a feeling about it. The mysterious gifts are simply one thing, but you know there’s more.

His quick shift in focus is accompanied by an odd change in behavior, as if the sudden shift in attentiveness wasn’t suspect enough.

He appears more ready to please while also remaining aloof.

He’s become more protective while also becoming more attached to your relationship.

The gifts are clearly his method of making amends for something.

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15) You’re dealing with lots of silence

You just don’t communicate as much as you used to. Messages and phone calls would continually ping your phone back in the day.

You can now go hours without speaking to one another. And it’s not because he’s overworked.

You see him online throughout the day and late at night, but you don’t get anything other than the standard “how are you?” if at all.

It’s not simply the phone calls and texts. Even the manner you spend your time together has shifted dramatically.

You’d be seated in the same room but wouldn’t be able to communicate. Hours pass and you’re still on your phones, doing something completely different.

To make matters worse, when you’re together, he seems more interested in what’s going on with his phone.

You catch sight of him smiling to himself or hear him joking from the other room.

You might as well be alone at the end of the day because you’re not truly spending time together.

16) You no longer hear about his life.

You knew everything about your husband or boyfriend’s life when you first started dating.

He’d contact you at the end of the day to tell you everything that had transpired at work.

Throughout the day, he would send you strange pictures and ask you how your day was going.

You’d be his go-to person for everything, both good and bad.

You were the first to learn about promotions at work or the bothersome incident at lunch.

For a while, your relationship appeared to be fully transparent. You know what happened in his day since he openly (and enthusiastically) shared it with you.

Obtaining information from him now appears to be impossible. He isn’t as forthcoming with information, and you frequently feel left out.

You’d learn about his life via pals or (worse) when he inadvertently spilled the beans.

It’s as if he’s already told these stories to someone else, but it just so happens that it wasn’t you.

17) He no longer seeks your approval.

He simply does not care what you think, there is no other way to phrase it.

Everything he does appears to be a basic necessity or an afterthought. When you go out to dinner, he makes no effort to look nice for you.

When you have an argument, he does not go out of his way to find you and console you.

He doesn’t go out of his way to make you smile and feel unique. It’s as if he doesn’t care what you think of him.

The real sting is that you can see him attempting other things.

On one of his mystery boys’ nights out, you could spot him wearing that shirt you used to love.

You’d find receipts for presents you never received or meals he never took you to.

He hasn’t ceased trying to grow as a person; he’s just stopped trying to grow for you.

If his conduct abruptly changed from wanting to please you to not caring what you think, he’s probably looking for affirmation elsewhere.

He no longer feels the need to impress you or work hard in your relationship because he is obtaining approval elsewhere.

18) “Why can’t you be more fun or daring?” He says things like this.

If he begins to focus on perceived problems in the relationship, this is an indication of adultery.

He may be feeling frustrated because you are not like the person with whom he is having an affair.

This is especially true if he begins to question why you’re not having enough fun or why you’re not experimenting enough in the bedroom.

When any relationship begins, even if it is only an affair, it may be filthy and intense.

Focusing on your weaknesses could also indicate hatred towards you because he is blaming his cheating habits on you in his thoughts.

19) He is now spending a lot more time on his phone than normal.

Smartphones make it easier to cheat, but they also make it easier to catch individuals cheating. A shift in how your boyfriend or husband uses his phone is a dead giveaway that he is cheating.

If your boyfriend is suddenly spending a lot of time on his phone, he could be involved in a game or preoccupied with business emails.

Inquire lightly as to why he always appears to have it in his hand. His reaction will reveal a lot about whether or not he is cheating.

If he’s secretive with his phone when he’s never been before, that’s a dead giveaway that something’s wrong.

Dr. Dan Brennan, a counselor and therapist, believes that keeping things from you on their phone may be a symptom of cheating:

“They may be attempting to avoid receiving any suspicious calls or texts while you are present.”

You should ponder why he used to leave it laying about in the living room but now keeps it in his pocket wherever he goes.

Also, keep an eye out for him turning the screen away when you’re nearby or refusing to charge it by the bed.

These things could also have very acceptable explanations. He could be turning away from the television because he’s planning a surprise for you, for example.

However, be alert of changes and look for trends.

20) More or less sex

If your husband or boyfriend is attracted to another woman and has sex with her, he will most likely change how he has sex with you.

If a man cheats on you, he may lose interest in having sex with you. They may even believe that having sex with you is a form of ‘cheating’ on the other person.

Or they may have simply lost interest since they are preoccupied with someone else. If he stops initiating and begins to avoid circumstances where you might initiate (such as early evenings), consider why.

When they’re cheating, other men will crave sex much more. Having more sex indicates that it is on their mind, regardless of who they are with.

Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT, a sex expert, explains why:

“Both lower and higher amounts of sexual activity in your relationship can indicate infidelity.” Less sex occurs when your partner is focused on someone else; more sex occurs when they are attempting to conceal this.”

They may also be feeling terrible and attempting to conceal their cheating by being overly loving. This might be especially painful if you’ve been through a dry spell.

Cheating rekindles their sexual desire, but you don’t recognize it because their affections for you have become stronger.

Another red flag is males who begin doing things in bed that they have never done before. If not from you, where did they learn it? It could be porn, but it could also be another woman…

21) Constantly mentioning someone… or avoiding to mention them

When you’re in love with someone, you find yourself talking about them all the time, often without even realizing it.

If your boyfriend or husband is cheating, it’s a strange irony that he may find himself ‘telling’ you about it by constantly chatting about his new interest.

If a woman’s name continues coming up in discussion, you should be cautious.

When this happens, it’s usually a work colleague or someone he met in a completely harmless environment, which means he doesn’t notice anything weird about chatting about them. He’s not thinking about the other woman; he’s thinking about work.

If he often mentions a woman and then abruptly stops, this is even more suspicious.

It’s a good sign that what began as an infatuation or a bit of flirtation has now progressed to something physical.

When he’s genuinely having an affair, he’ll usually realize that constantly discussing her isn’t a good idea.

22) Suddenly taking extra care of his appearance

Many men don’t care about their appearance if they’re in a committed relationship (beyond the basis of showers and clean clothes).

What should you consider if your husband or boyfriend buys a new wardrobe or develops a complicated new skincare routine?

If this occurs, it’s possible that he’s merely trying to impress you, or that he’s going through a quarter or midlife crisis.

But it’s also possible that he’s doing this to impress someone else. Consider the first several months of your relationship.

Did he put in more effort back then than he does now? If his newfound concentration on appearance is comparable to how he was when you first met, you should be concerned.

It suggests he’s doing the things he does normally when he’s in a new relationship…except this time it’s not with you.

According to marriage consultant Dr. Jacqueline Del Rosario, if your partner has had the same hairstyle for a long relationship but suddenly has a dramatic new haircut, “this could imply an effort to impress another person.”

You can also watch for changes in their grooming habits: “If your partner gets home and immediately jumps into a long shower, they may be washing away any signs of cheating.”


23) Money is vanishing.

Cheating can be costly. There will be meals, drinks, and possibly hotel rooms. If the lady he’s with is also cheating, they won’t have someplace to go but out, which is expensive.

Even if she’s single and has her own place to take him, he’ll want to impress her, which usually means spending money on lavish dates, flowers, and gifts.

If your boyfriend (or husband) makes a good living or you don’t have shared funds, you may not notice the extra spending right away. However, the costs will begin to up with time. Keep an eye out for letters from credit card companies that arrive on the doorway; these could be warnings that he hasn’t paid his payments on time.

Another red flag is if he appears to be constantly short on cash, which he was never before. Perhaps he has stopped recommending your customary Friday night pizza, or he has bought you a cheap gift for your birthday.

Small indicators may appear at first, such as purchasing a cheap bottle of wine rather than an expensive one on a date night.

If the small things start to build up and you can’t think of any other reason why he’d be concerned about money, you may have a problem.

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24) Increased work or pursuit of new interests

Because many men meet the person they have an affair with at work, spending more time at work is a good indicator that something is wrong.

According to Dominique Orlando, B.A. in Psychology from Fairfield University:

“Flat tires, dead batteries, traffic jams, additional time at the gym, and other similar excuses for being late or absent entirely may also indicate infidelity.”

Everyone needs to work a little harder than usual at times, but if he’s working a lot of extra for no obvious reason, be concerned.

This is especially true if his job has never required it. Also, keep in mind that time usually leads to something.

A promotion, extra money, or a large new project. If none of these things appear to be occurring, it is time to question him about why he is working so hard and what he is working on.

If he doesn’t have an explanation, it’s very likely that he isn’t working when he says he is.

Another thing to keep an eye out for are time-consuming new hobbies. It’s possible that his new pastime is something his other woman enjoys, and he’s gotten into it with her.

It’s also possible that it’s all made up and is just an excuse to spend time away from home.

Keep an eye out for anything involving employment or a hobby that takes him away overnight or on weekends. It’s possible he’s making it up and isn’t where he claimed he’d be.

Or it’s possible that the position he obtained that requires business travel is one he pursued because of the travel…with her.

He may not be interested in triathlon, but she is, and being a member of her triathlon club implies weekends away competing.

If you are skeptical, suggest that you accompany him the following time and see what happens.

25) Avoiding social or family gatherings

We all have days when we don’t want to see our friends or family, but cheaters frequently take it to the next level.

This is especially true if they believe your relationship has probably run its course but lack the courage to admit it.

According to the Relationship Institute, “a significant commitment makes it more difficult to exit a relationship quickly.”

If he is still delighted to see his own friends and family but avoids events with yours, he could be cheating and gradually retreating from your life.

Even if he isn’t cheating, it’s always bad news when a man who was previously content to interact with ‘your side’ decides he no longer is.

But be careful not to make any assumptions, as this can be tough.

People’s social patterns might change when they are dealing with anxiety or depression, and males often find it difficult to discuss their mental health, even with those closest to them.

It’s possible that he’s still willing to mingle with his own buddies since he feels more at ease with them. Be cautious, but don’t be a pushover.

26) You get the impression he’s psychologically tuned out.

Do you ever feel that your husband or boyfriend isn’t actually there when you’re in the same room with him?

You may be sitting knee-to-knee with someone and still feel completely alone.

You could almost see the words drifting in from one ear and out the other when you spoke. Nothing you say ever sticks, and you have to keep telling stories because he obviously isn’t listening.

Even when he stares into your eyes for an entire chat, you can tell his mind is elsewhere.

He has that empty look in his eyes that just implies he is thinking about something else different.

Not to add his quick, unthoughtful, and possibly even brusque remarks, which indicate how desperately he wants this conversation to finish.

You can blame it on job or being distracted with life, but you know deep down that it’s something else entirely.

The fact that he’s no longer invested in your day-to-day interactions indicates that he’s gradually losing interest in you and possibly falling in love with someone else.

27) He despises it when you do anything kind for him.

Among all of his emotional mood swings, this has to be one of the more suspect. He used to treasure all of the thoughtful, unprompted things you did for him.

Even leaving a note in his backpack or texting him during the day was enough to make him swoon.

Nowadays, a little, innocuous gesture might spark a heated argument. It’s almost as if he’s discouraging you from doing all the lovely things for him.

If that’s the case, he’s probably feeling terrible about playing the field while you’re still deeply attached to him.

And you being nice around him only serves to remind him of how much of a jerk he is behind your back.

Take it as a red flag and leave if a guy gets upset at you for being sweet.

He’s either guilty or a person who doesn’t know how to appreciate the wonderful things in life.

In any case, you do not deserve a man like that.

28) He becomes more attentive

Every cheater does not want to end their primary relationship. It’s possible that your boyfriend (or husband) is cheating in the hopes of having a little fun while still sticking with you.

If this is the case, he will most likely become more attentive rather than less. He’s feeling guilty and wants to make himself feel better by lavishing attention on you.

Maybe he’ll plan a romantic weekend away or bring flowers home for the first time.

Perhaps he’ll boost his game when it comes to Christmas or birthday gifts and get you something significantly more expensive than he has in the past.

Of course, it’s possible that he’s been thinking about the future and realized that he wants to pay you more attention and commit to you more than he has in the past.

That does happen when couples pick up the pace.

But if you don’t believe that’s the case and he suddenly becomes overly attentive, you have reason to be concerned.

29) You simply have a gut feeling.

Intuition exists. If you have a gut sensation that something is wrong, it’s probably because there is.

You can use intuition to pick up on minor cues regarding your partner’s conduct. There may not be anything significant that has changed that you can reasonably assess.

But you’re aware that things aren’t the same as they used to be, and you’re curious as to why.

However, receptivity to intuition should not be mistaken for insecurity. Be completely truthful with yourself.

If you have a history of being suspicious of other people but never being proven correct, it could be your insecurity speaking, not your intuition.

That is not something you should be ashamed of, but it is something you should work on.

If you know you’re not normally insecure, yet you have a strong hunch that something is wrong, you’re probably right.

You understand your boyfriend (or husband) better than anyone else.

Most importantly, you know how he is when he is in the first flush of lust with someone since he did it to you.

There is a reason you’re feeling the way you’re feeling. It’s possible that he’s not cheating, but you should investigate to find out what’s going on.

Don’t make assumptions, but be aware and start asking questions.

What you can do to save your relationship

To begin, let me state unequivocally that just because your partner exhibits a handful of the traits I have mentioned does not imply that he is absolutely cheating. It’s possible that these are simply warning signs of problems in your relationship.

However, if you’ve recently noticed several of these symptoms in your partner and you’re concerned that things aren’t going well in your relationship, I urge you to take action now before things worsen.

The best place to begin is with this free video from relationship expert James Bauer. He presents the hero impulse, which I addressed earlier in reference to relationship psychology.

Distance, a lack of communication, and sexual dysfunction are just a few of the things that can steadily infect a relationship. If not addressed properly, these issues might lead to infidelity and disconnect.

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